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Re: SUCCESS: First eHarmony Date

heartbrakehotel — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 10:13:50 -0000

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Re: Dating a Short Guy

tyedye333 — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 16:52:01 -0000

I am totally in favor of dating a woman MUCH TALLER than myself. I'm 5'10.5",and I have always loved women that have TOWERED over me. In fact,I'm so much in favor of it,that I believe that there should be an online dating website called "Tall women short men dating",or something similar to that,where it is a rule that there is no men taller than 6 foot,and no women shorter than 6 foot. This way,TALL women and their admirers are guaranteed to find each other. What does everybody think about this idea?

Re: Is this too over the top?

chaeseco — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:58:22 -0000

dcfemella, I agree with you.

To the person who made the post (I couldn't find a screen name). Be honest, make it clear that for you religion is not welcome in your dating experiences. How she handles this, should tell you all you need to know. At the very least you're setting a boundary. If she can't accept that or understand your concern, than she's not a match.

Re: Is this too over the top?

Shevonne — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:45:55 -0000

People who are constantly acting like they are holier than thou are usually not. I would be kind of weary about this one. If you are one with God, you don't have to flaunt it. It shows that she is using religion for show.

Re: Everything Happens for a Reason

Shevonne — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 21:32:57 -0000

Told you that chick had LOW self-esteem

Re: My Favorite Valentine’s Day Memories — Part 2

Shevonne — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 20:52:27 -0000

That is super sweet!

Re: Dating When Grieving

Amani — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 04:43:29 -0000

It might be best to let him know you had a death in the family and you need some time to sort things out in your head. Tell him to not take it personally but you would not be the best to be around right now, especially on a date. He should understand especially if you are being up front.

Re: My Favorite Valentine’s Day Memories Part 1

Shevonne — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 19:29:55 -0000

That's super sweet! I have never had a Valentine's in the 31 years I've been in this world, so I can't share anything in return. :(

Re: Month in Review — January 2010

Shevonne — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 19:29:05 -0000

That's awesome

Re: Timing is a b*tch …

Shevonne — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 10:35:40 -0000

You're losing hope like I am. Actually, I have already lost hope, and I don't intend to worry about it anymore. Maybe that is our issue. We worried about it way too much, so it wasn't happening for us. I do see how other people don't have to move a finger, and they already have someone who loves them. For us, it's 100 times harder. I honestly don't care anymore. I am sick of people not seeing our worth, and it's their loss. You are an amazing man, and if these women are too stupid to notice that, then you don't want them anyway.

Re: I’m in Trouble

Shevonne — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:22:40 -0000

I'm not a fan of dating people I met at clubs, so I don't see this as a fail.

Re: Remind me again — What is the Rule?

online dating site — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 03:28:59 -0000

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

dating

Re: Should I Settle?

Shevonne — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:36:10 -0000

Anyone who flakes about things that she knows others are depending on her, I wouldn't date. It shows a lack of respect, and she will do the same if you were dating her. Next!

Re: Temporarily Forgetting About Love

Amani — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:20:22 -0000

If you are genuine in your intentions then this will end up being the time when you run into someone worthwhile. When you aren't focused on it.

Re: My 2010 To Do List

Shevonne — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 13:31:01 -0000

I wish you luck in 2010 with this list. I know you can do it.

Re: Ex Keep Away From Me

heartbrakehotel — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 10:06:16 -0000

Definitely. I can't be in another bipolar relationship. Ughhhhh

Re: Ex Keep Away From Me

Amani — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 01:38:31 -0000

Yes, stay strong. You are doing the right thing. "Return to Sender"

Re: Remind me again — What is the Rule?

Shevonne — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:41:29 -0000

I don't think people should have rules when it comes to dating. You should just go with the flow. My friends and I were talking about this yesterday. If someone acts all weird by you being yourself, then you shouldn't be with that person anyway.

Re: Next Attempt: Chemistry.com

heartbrakehotel — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 16:12:58 -0000

Those are great tips to discovering emotional health. I also found that men who have a tendency to hang out with people five or more years younger than himself, have issues.

Re: Next Attempt: Chemistry.com

Simon — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 16:05:41 -0000

in my experience, the key to discovering emotional health is to ask a lot of personal history questions up front (within the first couple weeks) and to know which red flags to look out for, ie:

-- lots of failed relationships
-- very long-term or serious (engagement/marriage) relationship that ended recently
-- lots of family problems
-- drinking/drug problems
-- little or no friends
-- problems at work

Re: Next Attempt: Chemistry.com

heartbrakehotel — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 12:00:59 -0000

Emotional health is something that you can usually tell in the first couple of months. The only problem is that you waste a couple of months trying to figure it out. I just wish people were honest about themselves. It would save me a lot of time.

Re: Next Attempt: Chemistry.com

Amani — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 11:55:51 -0000

Only warning is that many people think they are emotionally healthy when they are just as damaged. So when you ask, they could say "yes" and have no clue.

Re: The Dreaded Question

Shevonne — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:41:49 -0000

If you feel that canceling the trip so you don't have to deal with the constant "When are you getting married" questions, then you should do it. I know that I am overly picky, and I am trying to learn to let go of some of my "must haves" when choosing someone. Maybe you need to reasses what you want in another person. However, don't do it to the point that you are choosing someone you are not going to be happy with.

Re: Loneliness and the Holidays

Amani — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:24:11 -0000

I agree 100% about the lonlieness. The holidays hurt so bad.

Re: He Doesn’t Want Kids; I Do

heartbrakehotel — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:09:59 -0000

Super SUPER southern. It's to the point that I am usually asking him to repeat himself.

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Re: SUCCESS: First eHarmony Date

Re: Dating a Short Guy

Re: Is this too over the top?

Re: Is this too over the top?

Re: Everything Happens for a Reason

Re: My Favorite Valentine’s Day Memories — Part 2

Re: Dating When Grieving

Re: My Favorite Valentine’s Day Memories Part 1

Re: Month in Review — January 2010

Re: Timing is a b*tch …

Re: I’m in Trouble

Re: Remind me again — What is the Rule?

Re: Should I Settle?

Re: Temporarily Forgetting About Love

Re: My 2010 To Do List

Re: Ex Keep Away From Me

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Re: Remind me again — What is the Rule?

Re: Next Attempt: Chem​istry​.com

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Re: The Dreaded Question

Re: Loneliness and the Holidays

Re: He Doesn’t Want Kids; I Do

Re: Next Attempt: Chemistry.com

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